[ES_TRADER]

Originally Posted by SehrSchnell

That's why I date only girls with eating disorders.

how do u deal with the nasty breath? especially if they bulimic

[ES_TRADER]

Originally Posted by UltimateBMW

This is definitely the way to go. Just start doing it yourself and ask her if she would like to come with you. After you've been a few times, get more persistent.

yes, and also when u go to the gym she will see like so many hot women working out with tight ass bodies she may just become self motivated...gym definitely is a good one...seeing everyone working out together just has that motivation effect u kno...

[Wakka]

I literally did this last night as i was going to sleep with my gf. Idk how i didnt catch a ton of shit from her.

'Babes you use the treadmill at the gym?'
'yeah!'
'for how long?'
'45 mins'
'you should do an hour' *roll over pass out*


All she said was she didnt have time on her lunch break or something. I was expecting a slap.

[iBoost]

Originally Posted by Sara504

Tell her it would be nice if she came to the gym and spent time with you. Then yall can work out together and she'll think you just want to be around her more often.

unless youre going to the gym when there is no one there, this is th worst idea. theres always some nice ass to motivate me at the gym.

[infinitekidM2C]

lol @ wakka (iboost ninja posted me)

unfortunately in my experience there are only two kinds of women...those that care and do what they gots to to say slim, and those that don't

[ES_TRADER]

Originally Posted by Wakka

I literally did this last night as i was going to sleep with my gf. Idk how i didnt catch a ton of shit from her.

'Babes you use the treadmill at the gym?'
'yeah!'
'for how long?'
'45 mins'
'you should do an hour' *roll over pass out*


All she said was she didnt have time on her lunch break or something. I was expecting a slap.

at the end of the day, working out is only 10% of the equation...its what u put in your mouth that counts way more...it does no good to work out an extra 15min if you're gonna hit MCD afterwards..try changing diets together

[NYCGP]

Originally Posted by richpuer

at the end of the day, working out is only 10% of the equation...its what u put in your mouth that counts way more...it does no good to work out an extra 15min if you're gonna hit MCD afterwards..try changing diets together

This is a very good point... Have you been monitoring what your GF puts in her mouth Rob?

[AU335i]

Originally Posted by NYCGP

This is a very good point... Have you been monitoring what your GF puts in her mouth Rob?

i bet he does...

[AU335i]

Originally Posted by Javi335

Dont leave her "alone" with the problem. Say that both need to lose some weight. Its a psychology strategy. Divide and Conquer

this honestly seems like the easiest way to do things without getting too negative of feedback... something along the lines of "hey babe, lets see if we can lose x.xx amount of pounds by Christmas to look good for your family (or some event coming up where you will see relatives)."

[Memphis1]

Tax that ass more often... Sweat it out

[1ForAll]

Don't tell her anything. Just let yourself go to hell and gain 50lbs. She will then complain that you became a fat ass, Then you can both work out and drop the weight.

[ZStig]

put fingers down her throat while she's asleep. accidentally. nightly.

[Sara]

Originally Posted by iBoost

unless youre going to the gym when there is no one there, this is th worst idea. theres always some nice ass to motivate me at the gym.

What does it matter who's there or not?

[fun ticket]

All this talk....too much work. Just get a new (thinner) gf. Sara looks like a good candidate

[Sara]

Originally Posted by fun ticket

All this talk....too much work. Just get a new (thinner) gf. Sara looks like a good candidate

Im at the gym Mon-Thurs

[Sara]

Originally Posted by Pcemkr

This.

I keep telling myself I'll never be happen with a girl that can't maintain their weight, but it's tough to be superficial. I need to DTB and find myself a slim, athletic type that will never have a weight problem to worry about.

Pro tip of the day: Just look at her mom.

Insurance.

[fun ticket]

Originally Posted by Sara504

Im at the gym Mon-Thurs

Like I said, give Sara a try......

[xerox445]

Its all about the subliminal messages. Get at weight loss hypnosis tape and play it in your room from like 3 to 4 in the morning while she is sleeping lol.

[3_runner]

Start hanging out with thinner more attractive women so she feels self-conscious and competitive.... This may motivate her.

[Sara]

Originally Posted by 3_runner

Start hanging out with thinner more attractive women so she feels self-conscious and competitive.... This may motivate her.

This sadly actually does work. (in a sense) It will either work in his favor (if she cares about her appearance as much as some women do) or he'll be in the dog house.

[sjg111]

OP, if you want some legitimate advice here, the more important question is whether or not she's the same weight as when you initially started dating. If she is, well, that's tougher to address as opposed to her gaining weight over the course of your relationship.

Regardless of how you bring it up, chances are she'll be defensive about it. You definitely need to make sure that you act as if you're concerned about her health, not the attractiveness factor. Make sure you do physical activities with her, even if you yourself are in good shape. When you go eat together, eat healthier foods also so she'll be more inclined to do so. If you go to the gym, encourage her to join you.

Making subtle comments or repeatedly pointing it out will likely strain your relationship more than it will help her lose weight.

[ScaredOnce]

Originally Posted by Sara504

This sadly actually does work. (in a sense) It will either work in his favor (if she cares about her appearance as much as some women do) or he'll be in the dog house.

Very wise. And yes, (I'm a jerk) it does work... for a while.