[bahasad]

Originally Posted by jtodd_fl

I recommend a full frontal attack on her most vital organs... her ears. Just talk to her. Tell her you are looking forward to your date in a couple weeks and you are hoping to take the relationship to the next level. Doesn't have to mean physical. Tell her what you told us. I would definitely make sure you don't have only big group dates. Like, tell her you want to make sure there is some alone time. Be direct. Props to a fellow Michigander (former, in my case).

Since she seems to be hesitant to phone calls, I feel like I will directly address the question with her when I see her in 2 weeks. The problem is, I've never had to ask a question like this before with my previous relationship.

I don't know how to easily address this question maybe like: where do you see us going? i want to take the relationship to the next level? How do you ask such a question without being extremely obvious.

I asked her about her previous BF, she always referred to him as her best friend as well. Don't know what that means ....

[Dang3r]

Hard to say; maybe a good indicator is, how intensive your chats are and then in comparison the real talks. If the last ones not into the virtual range...hm...man, she must be a super stunning kisser to keep your both mouths shut but I think, we could sort this reason out.
Asians are sometimes tricky to take, caused by their non-touchy raising and their feelings and expressions are not easy to read or to interprete.
I agree with Tara, give it a little more try but set yourself a limit just not to end up as the waiting idiot on duty.

[jtodd_fl]

Originally Posted by bahasad

Since she seems to be hesitant to phone calls, I feel like I will directly address the question with her when I see her in 2 weeks. The problem is, I've never had to ask a question like this before with my previous relationship.

I don't know how to easily address this question maybe like: where do you see us going? i want to take the relationship to the next level? How do you ask such a question without being extremely obvious.

I asked her about her previous BF, she always referred to him as her best friend as well. Don't know what that means ....

Well, I am an advocate of being direct, but not confrontational. I'd probably go with the "I like you a lot and would like us to not see other people for a while and see how it goes" approach - assuming monogamy is your thing. I wouldn't worry about being obvious. The general objective is to make your feelings known. I don't know, I haven't dated in this millennium, so what do I know. I just think openness and honesty go a long way vs. "game" when you get to this point.

[ASBSECU E93]

Originally Posted by bahasad

Since she seems to be hesitant to phone calls, I feel like I will directly address the question with her when I see her in 2 weeks. The problem is, I've never had to ask a question like this before with my previous relationship.

I don't know how to easily address this question maybe like: where do you see us going? i want to take the relationship to the next level? How do you ask such a question without being extremely obvious.

I asked her about her previous BF, she always referred to him as her best friend as well. Don't know what that means ....

Have you sent her dick pics?

Women LOVE dick pics

[bahasad]

Originally Posted by bimmette

I'd say keep texting/ chatting with her daily. When you see her in a couple weeks, if she isn't touchy-feely with you, you've been friend-zoned. Then get over it.

Thanks Tara. That was my plan of attack and I think that's probably the bestest strategy. I'll keep it going with her heavy these next couple of weeks until I see her.

I was actually just chatting with her and was like:
ME: "i have chocolate mousse pound cake in my fridge. i bought it for one of my girlfriends. shes coming over tonight. i have it ready
HER: lmao the second piece was yours but i ate it. ooooppps nice!
i see you are treating your mistresses right, i see
good jobbb
ME: lmao ... are you a sidechick or the mainchick? my mistresses ALWAYS get treated right they love me
HER: idk thats a tough question to answer

I know its just flirty conversation, but she likes to give me the run around when I try to put the mack on her hard lol.

[Aatish]

@bahasad

What Tara said. Make her feel comfortable and give it a shot once you feel it's right. Don't do anything that would make her not want to be friend with you.

Also, nice F30!

[jtodd_fl]

Originally Posted by bahasad

Thanks Tara. That was my plan of attack and I think that's probably the bestest strategy. I'll keep it going with her heavy these next couple of weeks until I see her.

I was actually just chatting with her and was like:
ME: "i have chocolate mousse pound cake in my fridge. i bought it for one of my girlfriends. shes coming over tonight. i have it ready
HER: lmao the second piece was yours but i ate it. ooooppps nice!
i see you are treating your mistresses right, i see
good jobbb
ME: lmao ... are you a sidechick or the mainchick? my mistresses ALWAYS get treated right they love me
HER: idk thats a tough question to answer

I know its just flirty conversation, but she likes to give me the run around when I try to put the mack on her hard lol.

[1LRM3]

Originally Posted by Aatish

It was probably the most cheesy/cliche date ever. But it was fun and it worked. I'll fully debrief later tonight.

Doesn't really matter brother... it worked, things sounds positive, and you will continue on that trend. Correct? "Yes, correct." Good Boy!

[Banana Hammock]

Originally Posted by bahasad

Thanks Tara. That was my plan of attack and I think that's probably the bestest strategy. I'll keep it going with her heavy these next couple of weeks until I see her.

I was actually just chatting with her and was like:
ME: "i have chocolate mousse pound cake in my fridge. i bought it for one of my girlfriends. shes coming over tonight. i have it ready
HER: lmao the second piece was yours but i ate it. ooooppps nice!
i see you are treating your mistresses right, i see
good jobbb
ME: lmao ... are you a sidechick or the mainchick? my mistresses ALWAYS get treated right they love me
HER: idk thats a tough question to answer

I know its just flirty conversation, but she likes to give me the run around when I try to put the mack on her hard lol.

Originally Posted by jtodd_fl

^ This.

Translation: "I have no real interest in you"

[jtodd_fl]

Originally Posted by duck fat

^ This.

Translation: "I have no real interest in you"

I think if anything comes of this, bahasad will be the side piece...

[Banana Hammock]

Originally Posted by jtodd_fl

I think if anything comes of this, bahasad will be the side piece...

That or an epic case of caeruleus scrotus.

[jtodd_fl]

Originally Posted by duck fat

That or an epic case of caeruleus scrotus.

Nice use of a derivative of the word Cerulean! I like it.

[bimmette]

Originally Posted by bahasad

Thanks Tara. That was my plan of attack and I think that's probably the bestest strategy. I'll keep it going with her heavy these next couple of weeks until I see her.

I was actually just chatting with her and was like:
ME: "i have chocolate mousse pound cake in my fridge. i bought it for one of my girlfriends. shes coming over tonight. i have it ready
HER: lmao the second piece was yours but i ate it. ooooppps nice!
i see you are treating your mistresses right, i see
good jobbb
ME: lmao ... are you a sidechick or the mainchick? my mistresses ALWAYS get treated right they love me
HER: idk thats a tough question to answer

I know its just flirty conversation, but she likes to give me the run around when I try to put the mack on her hard lol.

Uhhh sorry but that was a weird convo!
If she is only arranging group gatherings for you, this is not looking good. But keep trying for a couple weeks.

[shoei]

Originally Posted by ASBSECU E93

Have you sent her dick pics?

Women LOVE dick pics

This how you wooed axius, isn't it?

[jtodd_fl]

Originally Posted by shoei

This how you wooed axius, isn't it?

This and when he dyed Waffles blue... nothing Axius like better than blue waffles...

[Banana Hammock]

Originally Posted by jtodd_fl

Nice use of a derivative of the word Cerulean! I like it.

Thanks!

Getting all educated and shit up in here.

[///M Power-Belgium]

Originally Posted by jtodd_fl

I think if anything comes of this, bahasad will be the side piece...

I hate cats . Because dogs are man's best friend !

[shoei]

Originally Posted by jtodd_fl

This and when he dyed the Waffles blue... nothing Axius like better than blue waffles...

I just cussed you out in real life... I couldn't find anything to eat at someone else's house... I literally was into my second bite you mother bleeper, lol...

[Banana Hammock]

Originally Posted by shoei

I just cussed you out in real life... I couldn't find anything to eat at someone else's house... I literally was into my second bite you mother bleeper, lol...

You have surprisingly nice handwriting for a guy.

Suspicious...

[The Choosey begger]

Are girls turned off by uncut penis (ant eater)?

[jtodd_fl]

Originally Posted by shoei

I just cussed you out in real life... I couldn't find anything to eat at someone else's house... I literally was into my second bite you mother bleeper, lol...

Haha... I love it! the handwritten note was especially touching. I am going to print the out and put it in my hope chest.

[shoei]

Originally Posted by duck fat

You have surprisingly nice handwriting for a guy.

Suspicious...

Yeah I forgot about that, damnit... I've been hearing it my whole life... Forget you saw anything !!!

You saw nothing, you hear me, Ducky !! Nothing !!!