[Aatish]

Originally Posted by grimlock

Are you saying i should talk to her as mother, or as if i had something to hide from mother? I presume the latter is bad, because it means im on the defensive..

Have you ever done something wrong, and then you had to talk to your mother? You talk and act a lot more sincere, evasive when your talking to your mother if you've already done something your not supposed to.

[Aatish]

Originally Posted by grimlock

Didn't need to share that thought.

Spur of the moment...

[grimlock]

Originally Posted by Aatish

Try watching some movies..

Older James Bond movies helped me

Requirement: look like Pierce Brosnan/Sean Connery

<Making pistol sign with hand.. puts back in pocket.>

[grimlock]

Originally Posted by Aatish

Spur of the moment...

pronhub/youpron may be able to help u with that..

[Aatish]

Originally Posted by grimlock

pronhub/youpron may be able to help u with that..

In all seriousness, talk to the girl as if you were talking with your mother. Again, it comes down to not having the thought of intercourse on your mind; instead, a genuine concern for her well being.

[jtodd_fl]

Originally Posted by Aatish

In all seriousness, talk to the girl as if you were talking with your mother. Again, it comes down to not having the thought of intercourse on your mind; instead, a genuine concern for her well being.

Sincerity! If you can fake that, you got it made.

[grimlock]

Originally Posted by Aatish

In all seriousness, talk to the girl as if you were talking with your mother. Again, it comes down to not having the thought of intercourse on your mind; instead, a genuine concern for her well being.

i see, god damnit this is the issue, i don't really talk to her.. so i guess that's why i can't relate.. so like all along ive been talking to girls like i talk to my dad, so doesn't work well unless that girl is also dad-centric (as opposed to mom centric)
the topics of conversation r normally pursuits, achievements, what is cool.. i don't know how to concern anyones well being..

[Verbiage]

Everyone stop posting in here.

[jtodd_fl]

Originally Posted by Verbiage

Everyone stop posting in here.

Yeah, everyone stop posting in here. kthxbai

[Aatish]

Originally Posted by grimlock

i see, god damnit this is the issue, i don't really talk to her.. so i guess that's why i can't relate.. so like all along ive been talking to girls like i talk to my dad, so doesn't work well unless that girl is also dad-centric (as opposed to mom centric)
the topics of conversation r normally pursuits, achievements, what is cool.. i don't know how to concern anyones well being..

What kind of chicks are you dating? The girly girl girls? Or the girls that are dudes in hiding girls?

[grimlock]

Originally Posted by jtodd_fl

Sincerity! If you can fake that, you got it made.

I sincerely want to present her my penis..

[grimlock]

Originally Posted by Aatish

What kind of chicks are you dating? The girly girl girls? Or the girls that are dudes in hiding girls?

def. more manly girls.. i seem to have nothing in common with very girly girls, although i have nothing against them, wouldn't mind, but for some reason we seem like the sun and the moon (or whatever)

what about u? (jtodd's comic)

[Aatish]

Originally Posted by grimlock

def. more manly girls.. i seem to have nothing in common with very girly girls, although i have nothing against them, wouldn't mind, but for some reason we seem like the sun and the moon (or whatever)

what about u? (jtodd's comic)

Definitely independent girls. Not completely on her own, but definitely not dependent on anybody. If shit hits the fan, she could take care of herself.

[Axius]

Originally Posted by grimlock

that's the problem.. i don't know what to say
no one is giving me any advice, what do u expect me to do?
i mean specific advice, preferably a conversation dialogue chart..


won't asking about her panties polarize her faster than 'hey' ? .. u just want to see me fuck up, right?

We can't instruct you on what to talk about. You have to find common grounds and things that interest you both.

Girl I'm talking to likes reading Harry Potter and shit, I've never seen any of the movies or anything, talked about it for a while, now it turned into a movie night where we'll make puzzles and fuck.

[OptionlessM]

OP you live in Hong Kong. Using tinder there is like fishing with dynamite. Stup it up.

I'm actually heading to HK tomorrow.

[Verbiage]

Originally Posted by OptionlessM

OP you live in Hong Kong. Using tinder there is like fishing with dynamite. Stup it up.

I'm actually heading to HK tomorrow.

I thought OP was looking for women, not men.

[Aatish]

Originally Posted by OptionlessM

OP you live in Hong Kong. Using tinder there is like fishing with dynamite. Stup it up.

I'm actually heading to HK tomorrow.

Please read title one more time

[Verbiage]

BTW, Tinder has been deactivated from my phone, along with Bumble, since I am focusing on making my relationship work and investing in my future.


WTF is wrong with me? Time for adult-ing.

[OptionlessM]

Originally Posted by Aatish

Please read title one more time

IRL version yields similar results.

[Axius]

I haven't been on in a while. It's the weekend and it's warm so I'm taking the motorcycle downtown.

[Verbiage]

Originally Posted by Axius

I haven't been on in a while. It's the weekend and it's warm so I'm taking the motorcycle downtown.

Take pics.






Of yourself.

[Axius]

nudes?