Confess here

cmyx6go · 10-10-2019, 04:45 PM

I miss Joekerr busting my chops. Where did he go?

upstatedoc · 10-10-2019, 04:45 PM

xanax?

Rmtt · 10-10-2019, 04:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Run Silent

You're not helping....

In a past thread....I detailed my situation. But I was at a point where I didn't care anymore. They came through, but my boss still had to make it look like a win in the company's favor!

King Rudi · 10-10-2019, 05:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Run Silent

CONFESSION:

I just received an offer for a new position, moving from management into executive spot at a new company that is consumer products versus mining - so much more stable company.

Offer letter was within range I was willing to accept. I countered with a slightly higher amount and have not heard back with a response in about 24 hours.

I know I am probably stressing over nothing, but this was a big promotion so now I am completely freaking out that I may have botched it with the salary negotiation request.

Someone help talk me down from my panic attack!

You have nothing to worry about. All part of the game. You know how this game is played. They expected you to counter offer if they realize you are worth your salt, and they do, otherwise the offer would not have made to begin with. You know, just as well as I do, that even if they already know the position is yours, they're going to make you sweat it out for a few days. Congrats on the new position.

Run Silent · 10-10-2019, 05:19 PM

Done - they responded.

My counter was that since my current employer covers my health insurance premiums, and that would go away - that they increase my base salary by a commensurate amount.

They countered with no change in base salary but increased my annual bonus by 2.5%, which was comparable.

I signed and accepted the offer. Now I have to go tell my current employer - who is going to completely loose their shit.

New position is VP of Finance for a $29bil consumer products company. I'm stoked. Feel pretty good considering I am only 42.

kscarrol · 10-10-2019, 05:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Run Silent

Done - they responded.

My counter was that since my current employer covers my health insurance premiums, and that would go away - that they increase my base salary by a commensurate amount.

They countered with no change in base salary but increased my annual bonus by 2.5%, which was comparable.

I signed and accepted the offer. Now I have to go tell my current employer - who is going to completely loose their shit.

New position is VP of Finance for a $29bil consumer products company. I'm stoked. Feel pretty good considering I am only 42.

Congrats man, well done!! I assume you get to stay in the Mountains?

Run Silent · 10-10-2019, 05:40 PM

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Originally Posted by kscarrol

Congrats man, well done!! I assume you get to stay in the Mountains?

Thank you, sir! Yep - commute is about the same (45min or so) - just in the opposite direction. Will have to make a semi-regular pilgrimage to the home office in NYC on occasion, but that isn't a big deal.

Rmtt · 10-10-2019, 07:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Run Silent

Thank you, sir! Yep - commute is about the same (45min or so) - just in the opposite direction. Will have to make a semi-regular pilgrimage to the home office in NYC on occasion, but that isn't a big deal.

Congrats Mr. VP......you beat me by 3 years!

Nice to see hard work pay off. You deserve it. My new financial situation went into effect last pay cycle......I think my wife is waiting with more anticipation about tomorrow's check than I am!

And the drive will be just as nice in the other direction given the roads you have to play on. I know as I'm up that way frequently.

Triple Seven · 10-10-2019, 08:08 PM

I'm 47 and still dating girls in their 20's.

colorado.e9x · 10-10-2019, 08:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Triple Seven

I'm 47 and still dating girls in their 20's.

Savage asf

Turkish Pickle · 10-10-2019, 08:51 PM

the job hunt and the lack of offers is slowly getting to me

1MOREMOD · 10-10-2019, 08:52 PM

I'm 47 and was married to one in her 20s until last june

Triple Seven · 10-10-2019, 08:59 PM

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Originally Posted by colorado.e9x

Savage asf

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Originally Posted by 1MOREMOD

I'm 47 and was married to one in her 20s until last june

Let me guess, cheated on you?

Turkish Pickle · 10-10-2019, 09:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Triple Seven

I'm 47 and still dating girls in their 20's.

while i do endorse this

you're my dad's age, dating girls around my age

WestRace · 10-10-2019, 10:22 PM

The only time a 47 year old man should have anything to do with a 20's something girl is when he's watching porn. But it would be weird in real life.

UncleWede · 10-11-2019, 12:03 AM

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Originally Posted by WestRace

The only time a 47 year old man should have anything to do with a 20's something girl is when he's watching porn. But it would be weird in real life.

My SIL was married at 20 to a guy 25 years older. 30+years later they are still embarrassingly affectionate and we all love to travel together

UncleWede · 10-11-2019, 12:15 AM

I watched both Warren and Harris speak tonight at LTGBTSFHTEWTUII+ Human Rights CNN thingy

They make me think that a female president could be a very good thing

Just not either of those 2

In spreading the wealth around, I seem to see all shapes/sizes/colors/apparent gender identification in the workforce. How is corporate America keeping specifically the LGBTQ down?

Dang3r · 10-11-2019, 02:25 AM

In the gym Im one of the oldest members there, so its natural to look at very younger fems. As long as it stays at looking its fine for me, for the rest I got my Mrs

Rmtt · 10-11-2019, 05:45 AM

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Originally Posted by 1MOREMOD

I'm 47 and was married to one in her 20s until last june

I assume she turned 30??

King Rudi · 10-11-2019, 07:24 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Run Silent

Done - they responded.

My counter was that since my current employer covers my health insurance premiums, and that would go away - that they increase my base salary by a commensurate amount.

They countered with no change in base salary but increased my annual bonus by 2.5%, which was comparable.

I signed and accepted the offer. Now I have to go tell my current employer - who is going to completely loose their shit.

New position is VP of Finance for a $29bil consumer products company. I'm stoked. Feel pretty good considering I am only 42.

Well done sir! Proud of and for you. Always makes my day to hear stuff like this.

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Originally Posted by Triple Seven

I'm 47 and still dating girls in their 20's.

I'll give you props for being able to pull this off, but my question is how is the conversation? Anyone that I associate with, especially someone I'm dating, has to be somewhat of a conversationalist. Most 20 year olds, that I encounter, make me want to punch myself in the face after about 2 minutes of listening to them.

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Originally Posted by Turkish Pickle

the job hunt and the lack of offers is slowly getting to me

Stay the course. You really have no other option to begin with, but keep your head straight. Tough to do sometimes but try not to let it bother you. Find something to do to keep your mind occupied that rewards your brain. You need to keep some form of positive/healthy dopamine booster going to keep yourself out of the funk. Remember, the search for a positive experience is itself a negative experience and paradoxically, the realization of a negative experience is in turn a positive experience.

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Originally Posted by Rmtt

I assume she turned 30??

That's what I'm thinking. Still winning.

1MOREMOD · 10-11-2019, 08:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Rmtt

I assume she turned 30??

Correct. Guess that was last year shes 31.

upstatedoc · 10-11-2019, 08:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Run Silent

New position is VP of Finance for a $29bil consumer products company.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Triple Seven

I'm 47 and still dating girls in their 20's.

I must be doing it wrong

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