[F30lolz]

Sara is a chick? no way......

[Douche]

Originally Posted by davis449

That's because Sara is a woman (a great looking one, at that, which is important to my point) on a car forum filled mostly with guys. Almost every car forum has a "Sara" or two. There's one over on Audizine where I'm a long time member and have been a few on MBWorld where I was also a long time member. There's like an unwritten rule that you can't, unless you're another proven-attractive-IRL female, treat them like a normal forum member. You have to treat them with kid gloves when responding to them in any thread (especially one like this), as disagreement or telling them the harsh truth in a manner you would any other male member will almost certainly A.) garner aggressive responses from other male members posturing for "Alpha" position regarding who can e-defend her best or B.) be ignored because your harsh truth may offend her and anyone who may agree with you is afraid to say so for fear they may be knocked out of said running for "Alpha" position. It's pretty damn pathetic actually, but in one case I witnessed over at Audizine, a marriage resulted. So, I guess, there's hope for some of you who subtly or not so subtly hit on her in every thread she posts in.

I hear you.

That's what's going on when Bimmette accepts my marriage proposition. So audizine can suck it.

[PSUSMU]

Originally Posted by Alfisti

My 2c.

Here goes, no offence intended.

From this and other threads I can't shake the feeling that you're emotionally immature and incredibly insecure. The child co-sleeping is as much, if not more, for you than it is for the child, it's a soothing and security mechanism.

You walked headlong into a terrible relationship that you either knew was going to be bad but did not have the self-control to listen to your stomach or you simply clung onto the first man that paid enough attention to you.

You need to be loved, need to be wanted, the suggestive signature image, the posting images of yourself on a male dominated forum, the leaping into a bad relationship, the chasing of an apparently uninterested man and the co-sleeping all point in this direction.

My absolutely unqualified advice, stop dating, go see a psychiatrist and get to the bottom of why you feel and behave this way, until you sort this out you're just going to get burnt and burnt by the worst kind of people.

You need to understand your own emotions and why you're feeling the way you are. Understand yourself first, the rest will come and you will be happy.

Good Luck.

Well said. I dated a well-known/passed-around VW chick for like 8 months in my early 20s. When I broke up with her (because I wanted to enjoy my Senior year of college), she literally tried to throw herself out of my GTI while going ~40mph.

Advice - don't date psycho, car chicks. Sara - set yourself straight.

[BMW F22]

Originally Posted by PSUSMU

Advice - don't date psycho, car chicks. Sara - set yourself straight.

So don't nobody try to get with Bimmette, Sara, or Lups.

[carve]

Originally Posted by Sara504

Look, I only want two things. A gorgeous looking man that wants to be my husband. IS THAT SO MUCH TO ASK FOR?!!!!!!!!!!!!! I mean sheesh. Its not like I'm high maintenance.

Yes- way too much

If you need a husband, he's either going to be old or a beta male type

My advice is to be less goal oriented. Go out, have fun. If you think he's sexy, go home with him, but without the expectation it'll be anything but a fun night

Men can be three primary things to a woman: lover, friend, and provider. A relationship won't even cross my mind unless I can tell she values me in that order- lover first. My best long term and short term relationships have been with women I slept with on the first or second date. If it goes past three (not a hard and fast number- just a guideline) without getting pretty damn physical, I know that list is out of order and give her a pass. She's basically using her pussy as negotiation leverage to get something out of me besides fulfilling her desires, and playing games at that point, which is an awful precedent to start a relationship on. Ironically, holding out for something before sex is incredibly whorish...it becomes an economical exchange at that point

Beta male types who women don't typically get all tingly over will try to bank on their provider skills, and so called "nice guys" (who are actually just dishonest guys with no clue what women find attractive) will bank on the "friend" part. Not for me- if she sees me with dollar signs in her eyes or as a mangina shoulder to cry on or validate irrational behavior, she gets jet-packed

Edit- just noticed you've been to his house. Good job. It should've been clean though

[carve]

Originally Posted by Alfisti

My 2c.

Here goes, no offence intended.

From this and other threads I can't shake the feeling that you're emotionally immature and incredibly insecure. The child co-sleeping is as much, if not more, for you than it is for the child, it's a soothing and security mechanism.

You walked headlong into a terrible relationship that you either knew was going to be bad but did not have the self-control to listen to your stomach or you simply clung onto the first man that paid enough attention to you.

You need to be loved, need to be wanted, the suggestive signature image, the posting images of yourself on a male dominated forum, the leaping into a bad relationship, the chasing of an apparently uninterested man and the co-sleeping all point in this direction.

My absolutely unqualified advice, stop dating, go see a psychiatrist and get to the bottom of why you feel and behave this way, until you sort this out you're just going to get burnt and burnt by the worst kind of people.

You need to understand your own emotions and why you're feeling the way you are. Understand yourself first, the rest will come and you will be happy.

Good Luck.

Wow- that was extradorinarily observant and thoughtful.

[bimmette]

Originally Posted by BMW F22

So don't nobody try to get with Bimmette, Sara, or Lups.

Hey, I'm no psycho!

[Douche]

Originally Posted by bimmette

Hey, I'm no psycho!

Tara, will you marry me?

Think about it, if you say yes your sentence above will be proven true and everybody will believe you are no psycho.

[BMW F22]

Originally Posted by bimmette

Hey, I'm no psycho!

That's what all the crazy ones say. First step is denial.

[Mr.SugarSkulls]

Originally Posted by bimmette

Hey, I'm no psycho!

I don't know... You Canadians have given me a scare or two in my Seattle days...

[Joekerr]

Originally Posted by MrSugarSkulls

I don't know... You Canadians have given me a scare or two in my Seattle days...

It worked though...got you back to Seattle...

[Mr.SugarSkulls]

Originally Posted by Joekerr

It worked though...got you back to Seattle...

Hahahaah, yeah it worked in the sense where I moved to California leaving home behind!

[bimmette]

Originally Posted by Douche

Tara, will you marry me?

Think about it, if you say yes your sentence above will be proven true and everybody will believe you are no psycho.

Uuhhh, how do I put this nicely?
NO.

[Douche]

Originally Posted by bimmette

Uuhhh, how do I put this nicely?
NO.

Would you be open to future consideration?

[F30lolz]

Maybe she just isn't into you?

OP, keep us updated if you plan on dating the Jason Giambi look-a-like.

[bimmette]

Originally Posted by F30lolz

Maybe she just isn't into you?

OP, keep us updated if you plan on dating the Jason Giambi look-a-like.

[Douche]

Originally Posted by F30lolz

Maybe she just isn't into you?

OP, keep us updated if you plan on dating the Jason Giambi look-a-like.

Impossible.

[F30lolz]

Originally Posted by Douche

Impossible.

That's the attitude. Send her roses, box of chocolates and grab a guitar and play her a tune. That'll win her heart!

[Douche]

Originally Posted by F30lolz

That's the attitude. Send her roses, box of chocolates and grab a guitar and play her a tune. That'll win her heart!

I have a feeling she likes neither of those lol...

[Mr.SugarSkulls]

Originally Posted by Douche

I have a feeling she likes neither of those lol...

If you need a guitarist/singer- it's what I do for a living, just lmk

Douchebags got one another's back.

[Douche]

Originally Posted by MrSugarSkulls

If you need a guitarist/singer- it's what I do for a living, just lmk

Douchebags got one another's back.

That's my boy.
If it doesn't work out between you and Sara and Bimmette and I, we will always have each other.

[Mr.SugarSkulls]

Originally Posted by Douche

That's my boy.
If it doesn't work out between you and Sara and Bimmette and I, we will always have each other.

Nah, Sara has specifically said she prefers the "lawyer" type.

Aka skinny, flabby clean cut guys.

I'm muscular, tattood and shaggy facial hair.

I'm over it.

FYI- Blind fold circle jerks aren't gay as long as we don't see it happening.