Need Help !!!!

Victor.L3IchibanM3 · 02-25-2007, 04:31 AM

Sorry to update on this topic so late since I just got back from the worst trip of my life :mad: (another story I would need to tell sumtime dis week)..... so as of last Friday, I had the balls to went straight up to her after class and tell her that the secret present for V-Day was from me and that I kidda got pussy out and said that I had a crush on her and she just smile at me nicely

and she was still shy and would not tell me anything and just said bye and walk away

I dont noe wat she might think me about since now I have admit that I lyke her... now that wen I rethink about that conversion, I just think I made myself look like a total JACKASS

Welll.....skool is starting again on Monday and I will see her again.... this time wat should I say to her to start a conversation with her????

I cant just ignore her anymore.. I am more nervous than ever before talking to her after telling her that I have crush on her, I am not like the other guys wen is come to dating and asking out a girl, I personally am a really shy guy when talking to a girl that I have a crush on and I would trip out, stutter and make a fool out of myself.. I WOULD REALLY APPRECIATE IF ANY ONE OF YOU EXPERIENCED PEOPLE IN HERE JUST HELP ME OUT AND GIVE ME A GOOD ADVICE ON THIS ISSUE

BMW F22 · 02-25-2007, 04:37 AM

Sorry to say but I think you might have blew it.
I told you not to say that the gift was from you (at least not yet). You should have just asked her out to coffee or something. That way you know whether she's interested or not. Now you're wondering about her and she's probably thinking "do I owe him for the gift"?

Victor.L3IchibanM3 · 02-25-2007, 01:57 PM

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Originally Posted by BMWE90

Sorry to say but I think you might have blew it.
I told you not to say that the gift was from you (at least not yet). You should have just asked her out to coffee or something. That way you know whether she's interested or not. Now you're wondering about her and she's probably thinking "do I owe him for the gift"?

Well I just have to wait and see....... she doesnt look like those type of gurl who would go out to Starbuck so I dont have anything to say.... u guys noe any other way I can rebound back and start a regular conversation

NaTuReB0Y · 02-25-2007, 02:07 PM

just tell her that you made a $1,000 bet with one of your best friends that you can get her to go on a date with you.....or else you'll be washing and cleaning his toilets for the next 2 years........to pay up the $1,000. it's the called the "appeal to sympathy" method of dating.....

honestly, don't be a pussy.......real men should act like men.

when i was high school.....i went to ask this chick to dance and she said "no"....so i sat down and talked to her and explained how hard and difficult it was for a guy to walk up to a stranger(girl) and ask her to dance......and put yourself in my situation.....after talking to her for 10 minutes.....she said "yes." grow some balls.......

spacedogg · 02-25-2007, 02:16 PM

young grasshopper...you need to get a Flowmaster muffler on your E90...and then alll your problems with the ladies will go away.

http://www.e90post.com/forums/showthread.php?t=48524

flush01 · 02-25-2007, 02:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Victor.L3IchibanM3

Sorry to update on this topic so late since I just got back from the worst trip of my life :mad: (another story I would need to tell sumtime dis week)..... so as of last Friday, I had the balls to went straight up to her after class and tell her that the secret present for V-Day was from me and that I kidda got pussy out and said that I had a crush on her and she just smile at me nicely

and she was still shy and would not tell me anything and just said bye and walk away

I dont noe wat she might think me about since now I have admit that I lyke her... now that wen I rethink about that conversion, I just think I made myself look like a total JACKASS

Welll.....skool is starting again on Monday and I will see her again.... this time wat should I say to her to start a conversation with her????

I cant just ignore her anymore.. I am more nervous than ever before talking to her after telling her that I have crush on her, I am not like the other guys wen is come to dating and asking out a girl, I personally am a really shy guy when talking to a girl that I have a crush on and I would trip out, stutter and make a fool out of myself.. I WOULD REALLY APPRECIATE IF ANY ONE OF YOU EXPERIENCED PEOPLE IN HERE JUST HELP ME OUT AND GIVE ME A GOOD ADVICE ON THIS ISSUE

i toled you not to tell her it was from you... you got no chance now UNLESS she thinks looking like an idiot is cute...

NaTuReB0Y · 02-25-2007, 02:22 PM

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Originally Posted by spacedogg

young grasshopper...you need to get a Flowmaster muffler on your E90...and then alll your problems with the ladies will go away.

http://www.e90post.com/forums/showthread.php?t=48524

i second that!!!

i had a Flowmaster Muffler on my toyota supra in college.....and it was the loudest shit on campus......3 fixing tickets....and 3 pussies along the way before i got rid of it.....just too damn loud!

aapriadi · 02-25-2007, 02:45 PM

i think you blew it

get her out of your head, if she likes you she'll come back

Victor.L3IchibanM3 · 02-26-2007, 02:33 AM

Thanks guys..... I just have pray n wait n see how it goes.......

well lyke other ppl said there are always more fish in the sea

Ninjaneer · 02-26-2007, 11:36 AM

If you really "blew" it then it doesn't hurt to try again and ask her out. Don't mention the gift stuff, just be like hey I was wondering if you'd like to... catch a movie, go for coffee, bowling, mini-golf, whatever just something.

If she rejects, fine, but I don't think you got anything to lose if she already determined it's a no-go. You could wait a few days and observe how things go before doing this. Say hi in passing a few times, ask how classes are going etc. ... if she doesn't say anything then you can try asking her out and give it one more shot.

02-25-2007, 04:31 AM	#23
Victor.L3IchibanM3 Banned 284 Rep 373 Posts Drives: '06 325i,'04 RX 330,'99Corolla Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: San Jose iTrader: (0)	Sorry to update on this topic so late since I just got back from the worst trip of my life :mad: (another story I would need to tell sumtime dis week)..... so as of last Friday, I had the balls to went straight up to her after class and tell her that the secret present for V-Day was from me and that I kidda got pussy out and said that I had a crush on her and she just smile at me nicely and she was still shy and would not tell me anything and just said bye and walk away I dont noe wat she might think me about since now I have admit that I lyke her... now that wen I rethink about that conversion, I just think I made myself look like a total JACKASS Welll.....skool is starting again on Monday and I will see her again.... this time wat should I say to her to start a conversation with her???? I cant just ignore her anymore.. I am more nervous than ever before talking to her after telling her that I have crush on her, I am not like the other guys wen is come to dating and asking out a girl, I personally am a really shy guy when talking to a girl that I have a crush on and I would trip out, stutter and make a fool out of myself.. I WOULD REALLY APPRECIATE IF ANY ONE OF YOU EXPERIENCED PEOPLE IN HERE JUST HELP ME OUT AND GIVE ME A GOOD ADVICE ON THIS ISSUE
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02-25-2007, 04:37 AM	#24
BMW F22 Major General 3659 Rep 9,783 Posts Drives: ///M235i Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Bay Area iTrader: (8)	Sorry to say but I think you might have blew it. I told you not to say that the gift was from you (at least not yet). You should have just asked her out to coffee or something. That way you know whether she's interested or not. Now you're wondering about her and she's probably thinking "do I owe him for the gift"?
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02-25-2007, 02:07 PM	#26
NaTuReB0Y Powered By 36DD 366 Rep 7,369 Posts Drives: 2006 E90 Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Inland Empire iTrader: (12)	just tell her that you made a $1,000 bet with one of your best friends that you can get her to go on a date with you.....or else you'll be washing and cleaning his toilets for the next 2 years........to pay up the $1,000. it's the called the "appeal to sympathy" method of dating..... honestly, don't be a pussy.......real men should act like men. when i was high school.....i went to ask this chick to dance and she said "no"....so i sat down and talked to her and explained how hard and difficult it was for a guy to walk up to a stranger(girl) and ask her to dance......and put yourself in my situation.....after talking to her for 10 minutes.....she said "yes." grow some balls....... __________________ 2006 E90 330i Jet Black \| 20" WORK VS-XX \| FK452 \| H&R Sport on Koni Yellow \| REMUS QUAD
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02-25-2007, 02:16 PM	#27
spacedogg Colonel 203 Rep 2,816 Posts Drives: Debadged Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Vancouver, BC iTrader: (0)	young grasshopper...you need to get a Flowmaster muffler on your E90...and then alll your problems with the ladies will go away. http://www.e90post.com/forums/showthread.php?t=48524
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02-25-2007, 02:45 PM	#30
aapriadi Colonel 201 Rep 2,068 Posts Drives: '13 F30 AW 320i Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Jakarta, Indonesia iTrader: (10)	i think you blew it get her out of your head, if she likes you she'll come back __________________ mod = crack
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02-26-2007, 02:33 AM	#31
Victor.L3IchibanM3 Banned 284 Rep 373 Posts Drives: '06 325i,'04 RX 330,'99Corolla Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: San Jose iTrader: (0)	Thanks guys..... I just have pray n wait n see how it goes....... well lyke other ppl said there are always more fish in the sea
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02-26-2007, 11:36 AM	#32
Ninjaneer Shadow Warrior 151 Rep 2,095 Posts Drives: '07 335i Sedan Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Florida iTrader: (0)	If you really "blew" it then it doesn't hurt to try again and ask her out. Don't mention the gift stuff, just be like hey I was wondering if you'd like to... catch a movie, go for coffee, bowling, mini-golf, whatever just something. If she rejects, fine, but I don't think you got anything to lose if she already determined it's a no-go. You could wait a few days and observe how things go before doing this. Say hi in passing a few times, ask how classes are going etc. ... if she doesn't say anything then you can try asking her out and give it one more shot. __________________ 335i E90 / Arctic / Gray / Burl Walnut / Steptronic / ZPP / ZSP / Paddles / CA / Nav / PDC / OEM Spoiler Mods: PIAA Angel Eyes, Rear Fog Switch, Escort X50 Blue hardwire, 30% Charcoal Llumar Installing soon: Rear Power Outlets (Happy Robot mod!)
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