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Originally Posted by smoosh

Funny you mention this, I met a chick from Tinder who went to undergrad at the same time as one of my best friends. Dug around a bit and found out her and him are also really good friends. Her and my conversation died out because she didn't have much time to meet, was skeptical of guys on Tinder, I was very respectful to her and her time, then I texted my guy friend and told him about her. He spoke very highly of her. He sent her a text telling her that he knows me, etc., and I got a text from her one evening asking if we can meet up!

Hope that made sense, a little confusing haha

Moral of the story...be friendly and classy even if things don't work out...you just never know

Amen bro... and yes, made a lot of sense!

[smoosh]

Cot dammit guys, now I can't stop staring at and criticizing every chick's eyebrows...

Look at these caterpillars

[bimmette]

Originally Posted by smoosh

Cot dammit guys, now I can't stop staring at and criticizing every chick's eyebrows...

Look at these caterpillars

But she has potential. A nice smile.

[smoosh]

Originally Posted by bimmette

But she has potential. A nice smile.

What makes a nice smile, in your opinion?

Is t case-by-case?

[Aatish]

Looks natural. Not forced. Like, she actually looks happy instead of pretending to look happy for a photo.

[Aatish]

A threading should fix that for her.

[bimmette]

Originally Posted by smoosh

What makes a nice smile, in your opinion?

Is t case-by-case?

I like to see teeth and it helps if the teeth aren't yellow and all crooked but they don't have to be perfect. I just like it when people aren't afraid to smile really big. Some of my family used to tell me my big smile was cheesy but it's actually something I get complimented on the most.

[Aatish]

Eyebrows...

[smoosh]

Originally Posted by bimmette

I like to see teeth and it helps if the teeth aren't yellow and all crooked but they don't have to be perfect. I just like it when people aren't afraid to smile really big. Some of my family used to tell me my big smile was cheesy but it's actually something I get complimented on the most.

Interesting...so bimmette, when you first look at a pic of a guy, I'm assuming you notice smile. What else? Eyebrows? What are the first few things that drives your attention and interest?

[smoosh]

Originally Posted by Aatish

Looks natural. Not forced. Like, she actually looks happy instead of pretending to look happy for a photo.

Ah, makes sense.

I would imagine a natural look would hold true throughout one's body (posture, hair, etc.), not just smile, right?

[Aatish]

Originally Posted by smoosh

Ah, makes sense.

I would imagine a natural look would hold true throughout one's body (posture, hair, etc.), not just smile, right?

Correct. It should look natural and relaxed...in appropriate situations. Like if she's sitting at a table drinking coffee and chilling, she should look like she's chilling and enjoying herself...not all pucker-faced and stick-up-her-ass looking.

But remember, looks are only part of the story.

[smoosh]

Originally Posted by Aatish

Correct. It should look natural and relaxed...in appropriate situations. Like if she's sitting at a table drinking coffee and chilling, she should look like she's chilling and enjoying herself...not all pucker-faced and stick-up-her-ass looking.

But remember, looks are only part of the story.

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Got it

I agree, looks are only part of it...but with Tinder and Bumble, looks have got to be 95% of it

[Aatish]

Originally Posted by smoosh

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Got it

I agree, looks are only part of it...but with Tinder and Bumble, looks have got to be 95% of it

Well, they are designed to be that way, so looks are the main medium of judgement. Otherwise, it would just be "Shadhi.com" :b

[Aatish]

I need to go on a date. It's been 1.5 weeks. Fuck

[smoosh]

Originally Posted by Aatish

I need to go on a date. It's been 1.5 weeks. Fuck

Bhai, apologies for my ignorance to this matter...I thought you were married?

[bimmette]

Originally Posted by smoosh

Interesting...so bimmette, when you first look at a pic of a guy, I'm assuming you notice smile. What else? Eyebrows? What are the first few things that drives your attention and interest?

Hmm if it's just a headshot, I guess I would notice hair after his smile.

[smoosh]

Originally Posted by bimmette

Hmm if it's just a headshot, I guess I would notice hair after his smile.

Gotta provide more substance than that lol

I'm asking for bimmette's thorough analysis here

[Aatish]

Originally Posted by smoosh

Bhai, apologies for my ignorance to this matter...I thought you were married?

Lol. Bhai, I'm married to my work and money :b. Not actually married...I've got a lot of time before that.

I have a friend, whom is a girl, whom I am very close with.

[bimmette]

Originally Posted by Aatish

Lol. Bhai, I'm married to my work and money :b. Not actually married...I've got a lot of time before that.

I have a friend, whom is a girl, whom I am very close with.

[bimmette]

Originally Posted by smoosh

Gotta provide more substance than that lol

I'm asking for bimmette's thorough analysis here

I judge less on appearance than you guys do. Honestly if someone has a nice smile and decent hair or shaved off if receding, then it's all good. Just not interested in the gangsta wannabe look or someone obese. I can like someone considered not good-looking if he makes me laugh.

[Aatish]

I would say that was the first time someone thought I was married...and I'd be lying lol

[Aatish]

Originally Posted by bimmette

I judge less on appearance that you guys do. Honestly if someone has a nice smile and decent hair or shaved off if receding, then it's all good. Just not interested in the gangsta wannabe look or someone obese. I can like someone considered not good-looking if he makes me laugh.

So the way into your heart is to NOT be a BMW driving d-bag or a McDonalds spokesman?