[V1.47fan]

Originally Posted by jtodd_fl

I think you oversimplify. We always hear how girls like the ignorer and the "whatever" guy. It doesn't seem that both could be true. Maybe different people feel different ways and they are all being honest.

* Plus, don't believe everything you read - especially books written by drunk Israelites hiding out in the mountains.

You're the one who oversimplified, marriage is work and that includes staying faithful.

In a 1991 study, sex researcher Shere Hite found that*70 percent*of married women have cheated on their partners; a 1993 follow-up study found that*72 percent*of married men have as well.

And if you include married men who just fantasized about fcking another woman, i think that number will probably be 99.99 %.

Guys do struggle to stay faithful especially when they have beautiful,intelligent women knocking at their doors saying otherwise is being disingenuous, imho.

[grimlock]

Originally Posted by Mr Tonka

You apparently took my comments in the cool picture thread personally. I'm not saying i'm above anything or anyone. Trust me, i've got the capability to be the worst of the lot. I'd love to sit at my desk and look at hot chicks all day whether they be scantily clad, naked, bikini, etc.... But i know that's not healthy for me, specifically for the relationships i have with the opposite sex.

I have experience with friends who were sucked in to that and they are NEVER satisfied. I'm not saying that's you. Maybe Belgium, but i have no place to judge you or Belgium over the internet based on your posts made while in your internet persona.

There are some people here with a somewhat fabricated internet persona. I'm not one of them. About 98% of what i type is what i'd say if we were face to face. And I'll radially admit that I want to peruse the Beautiful Person thread daily. Some people may see no harm in that. Some may not experience any harm from it (though i'd be skeptical about that) but i know it's no good for me and rather not see it over run a thread with actually cool stuff in it. Most of which (cool stuff) you've posted.

[jtodd_fl]

Originally Posted by V1.47fan

You're the one who oversimplified, marriage is work and that includes staying faithful.

And if you include married men who just fantasized about fcking another woman, i think that number will probably be 99.99 %.

Guys do struggle to stay faithful especially when they have beautiful,intelligent women knocking at their doors saying otherwise is being disingenuous, imho.

Fair enough. Maybe this is more semantic than anything else. Marriage is definitely work, I would not dispute that. There are rough times. I can also say, unequivocally, that I have never "struggled" to stay faithful. I don't think I am unique in that. There are all types of relationships. Many committed relationships that fail, no one cheats. They end it and then go on their way. I don't honestly ever seeing that happen for me, but as long as we are together, cheating is just not an option. I get that some do not hold sexual fidelity in the same regard that we do, and that's cool. But to us, that is an inviolable promise we have made. It just is. We would divorce (or "renegotiate", I suppose), but not cheat. I don't know... everyone is different. I see where you are coming from, but I bristle at sweeping generalizations. If the number is really 72%, then I weep for humanity. Not because it is sex, but because it shows a lack of commitment to ones word and a lack of morals on a level that transcends just sex.

[Aatish]

Think I know the answer, but I'll ask anyway.

Why do some girls with steady boyfriends still try to become flirtatious with other dudes?

[Axius]

Originally Posted by ASBSECU E93

So, my copilot note didn't work

No, it didn't. You've failed me.



It's okay big guy, there's others in que.

[ASBSECU E93]

@[Axius](contact:28895 - she might have been into me anyway (not to boast or anything...).

Was probably the wedding ring and the shinny watch

[jtodd_fl]

Originally Posted by ASBSECU E93

@[Axius](contact:28895 - she might have been into me anyway (not to boast or anything...).

Was probably the wedding ring and the shinny watch

Of watch, that is. kthxbai
I love shinny watches.

[Verbiage]

What's shinny, again?

[jtodd_fl]

Originally Posted by Verbiage

What's shinny, again?

It's like shiny, except for people who either cannot type or get autocorrected.

[Mr Tonka]

Originally Posted by ASBSECU E93

@[Axius](contact:28895 - she might have been into me anyway (not to boast or anything...).

Was probably the wedding ring and the shinny watch

I think watches matter way more to dudes than girls. For guys, it's like girls checking out other girls shoes or purse. We look at cars and watches more so than most anything else. As a person who's been in and around sales for some time, a mans watch is a about the best qualification tool we have.

Though there are some very wealthy dudes who use their phone as a time piece.

[Axius]

The tattoos probably scared her, or she just knew I have a monster dong.

[V1.47fan]

A nice Rolex Daytona wouldnt hurt when it comes to women who want to marry a rich man. I'm sorry most women dont give a $hit about money.

[jimj911]

Originally Posted by Verbiage

What's shinny, again?

Its playing pond hockey

[Mr Tonka]

Originally Posted by V1.47fan

A nice Rolex Daytona wouldnt hurt when it comes to women who want to marry a rich man. I'm sorry most women dont give a $hit about money.

Most women couldn't pick out a Daytona Rolex from a line up.

[ASBSECU E93]

Verbiage - Fuq U In skool, I had to choose, learn to count or spell...I am crazy good with numbers

jtodd_fl - nothing special, a Movado Fiero....

and yes shoei and EstorilM - I bought it at a STEEP discount

[ASBSECU E93]

Originally Posted by jtodd_fl

Of watch, that is. kthxbai
I love shinny watches.

Forgot the damn pic...

[Axius]

Damn, you know you're fancy when you wear shirts that have cuffs to work.

[ASBSECU E93]

Originally Posted by Axius

Damn, you know you're fancy when you wear shirts that have cuffs to work.

[V1.47fan]

Originally Posted by Mr Tonka

Most women couldn't pick out a Daytona Rolex from a line up.

I was talking about women who wanna a rich man, i know in your wotld they probably don't exi5.

[Biorin]

Originally Posted by V1.47fan

A nice Rolex Daytona wouldnt hurt when it comes to women who want to marry a rich man. I'm sorry most women dont give a $hit about money.

If I were willing to get with a guy solely for his money, I'd at least try and dignify myself by selecting someone who had good taste.

Originally Posted by Aatish

Think I know the answer, but I'll ask anyway.

Why do some girls with steady boyfriends still try to become flirtatious with other dudes?

"Try" is an interesting term. Some girls like the attention. For some girls, it may just be that the way they interact with men can be perceived as flirtatious, even when that's not the intention.

[jtodd_fl]

Originally Posted by ASBSECU E93

Forgot the damn pic...

Thanks for the pic. I have a small collection of Movado's from back in the day
A couple "Museum watches"
- Gold case, black face and strap
- Gold case, gold face, brown strap
- Stainless case and bracelet with gold dots and black face.

My wife wears a Movado to this day. We have three of the exact same watch so that she can wear it when it is in for service or if the battery dies and one in reserve in case one of the other two dies... *sigh* It is not made anymore, I don't think.

Even my daughter has an ESQ. Nice watch. Thanks.
Here are some pictures (not particularly good ones) from Google. Note that the strap on the gold-faced one is not original (but mine is).


Edit: Added some googled pics, as those watches are in storage right now.

[jtodd_fl]

Originally Posted by Biorin

If I were willing to get with a guy solely for his money, I'd at least try and dignify myself by selecting someone who had good taste.

My Mom told me (and my siblings) that if you marry someone for money, you will earn it all tenfold.

That always stuck with me. (and my siblings, apparently.)