Do you open the car door for women?

Germanauto · 06-27-2019, 10:11 PM

Hmm well most of my dates involve straight up meeting the girl somewhere. But I did pick up a girl the other day and forgot to open the car door for her lol. I'm sure if it were a fancy night out in the city I would have, but this was a casual coffee shop thing.

But when it comes to the actual date I always hold the door open wherever we go.

MKSixer · 06-27-2019, 10:29 PM

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So glad to not be dating these days.

You have no idea. It's like a deck of jokers with the exception of 1 ace.

Dog Face Pony Soldier · 06-28-2019, 12:29 PM

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I do it as long as it isn't EXPECTED of me to do it. Shes standing at the door waiting for me to come open it? not gonna happen.

Years ago I was dating a young woman from Novosibirsk, and she would literally stand by ANY door and wait until I opened it for her. That relationship didn't last long.

Rmtt · 06-28-2019, 12:43 PM

I do it when I think about it, but don't sweat it if I forget to. I do think about it if we are driving the Corvette and parked near something I don't want her opening the door around as it has some pretty long doors.

In regards to restaurants I walk at a pretty fast pace and am usually at the door first. So out of reflex, I normally hold the door for her to enter first.

PoorLurker · 06-28-2019, 01:54 PM

G35POPPEDMYCHERRY · 06-28-2019, 02:00 PM

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LOL gotta rewatch. funniest man alive IMO.

hope he makes another season

Graves · 06-28-2019, 04:37 PM

I do it because she's my Mami Chula and I love treating her like the queen she is. I pull her chair out for her at restaurants still.

SJTrance · 06-28-2019, 05:36 PM

The weird thing with this for me is that I used to do it all the time for my ex. She knew what to expect and made it easy. My current wife is a bit clumsy about it and just opens her own door. I'd like to but it doesn't happen smoothly. I gave up on it. lol

infinitekidM2C · 06-28-2019, 05:38 PM

I need to work on my chivalry. I sometimes take off before she's even closed the door. Also never notice when/if she's actually buckled up. Maybe i need to calm down.

Savageenterprise · 06-28-2019, 05:53 PM

Hold the door for my wife and let her walk first always whether it's into a store or building etc. I'll also open the car door for my wife if shes holding something, or were approaching the car and the passenger door is closest to me... I'll open her door first and then walk around just to be a gentleman.

I wouldn't walk past my door around the entire car to open her door, then walk back. It just seems like that is a little much

BM dnobagaV · 06-28-2019, 05:54 PM

Depends. Am I driving an e60 M5? Because I've gotta get in and let it warm up for five minutes. If she's fine standing outside the car door for five minutes, then yes, I do open the door for her

upstatedoc · 06-28-2019, 07:39 PM

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All the time, because I really like blowjobs.

Was married for 13 years. Now have a GF. Can confirm this.

Mingwan · 06-28-2019, 08:10 PM

I do. But it’s because I cringe every time she closes the frameless door by the top of the window.

upstatedoc · 06-28-2019, 08:14 PM

Dude where you been?

Mingwan · 06-28-2019, 08:16 PM

Me? Been busy getting boats and hoes.

upstatedoc · 06-29-2019, 02:58 PM

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Me? Been busy getting boats and hoes.

pics of boats and hoes

Seeyal · 06-29-2019, 03:25 PM

If not always, most of the time, and also when no one is watching... Married since 1991 and still doing it... It is how much I respect the mother of our children and my wife... Call me old school, I guess... 58 years young in 2 days...lol

F30lolz · 06-29-2019, 05:58 PM

Does closing the door on your SO count?

dozaiya · 06-30-2019, 01:04 AM

should change title to do you hold purse for women

DF · 06-30-2019, 02:13 PM

i dont think i have ever opened a car door for someone who was physically able to do so on their own

Mingwan · 06-30-2019, 02:27 PM

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pics of boats and hoes

dreamingat30fps · 06-30-2019, 02:32 PM

Every single time an armless woman gets in my car

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06-27-2019, 10:11 PM	#45
Germanauto Major General 9844 Rep 6,144 Posts Drives: Alfa Romeo Giulia, Rosso Join Date: Jul 2016 Location: LA iTrader: (0)	Hmm well most of my dates involve straight up meeting the girl somewhere. But I did pick up a girl the other day and forgot to open the car door for her lol. I'm sure if it were a fancy night out in the city I would have, but this was a casual coffee shop thing. But when it comes to the actual date I always hold the door open wherever we go. __________________ Former -2008 E90 328 black/brown -2012 Lexus IS250 black/black
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06-28-2019, 12:43 PM	#48
Rmtt Colonel 8203 Rep 2,250 Posts Drives: 2011 BMW 128i, 2008 LS3 C6 Join Date: Jan 2019 Location: South Carolina iTrader: (3)	I do it when I think about it, but don't sweat it if I forget to. I do think about it if we are driving the Corvette and parked near something I don't want her opening the door around as it has some pretty long doors. In regards to restaurants I walk at a pretty fast pace and am usually at the door first. So out of reflex, I normally hold the door for her to enter first. __________________ Everybody has a gameplan....until they get punched in the mouth.
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06-28-2019, 04:37 PM	#51
Graves Sicario 1132 Rep 1,247 Posts Drives: 2018 M3 ZCP Join Date: Jul 2017 Location: Fort Stewart iTrader: (1) Garage List 2018 BMW M3 ZCP [0.00]	I do it because she's my Mami Chula and I love treating her like the queen she is. I pull her chair out for her at restaurants still. __________________ Ryan King 2018 M3 ZCP
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06-28-2019, 05:36 PM	#52
SJTrance Private First Class 31 Rep 115 Posts Drives: 2002 Ducati 900 Supersport Join Date: Jun 2013 Location: NYC iTrader: (0)	The weird thing with this for me is that I used to do it all the time for my ex. She knew what to expect and made it easy. My current wife is a bit clumsy about it and just opens her own door. I'd like to but it doesn't happen smoothly. I gave up on it. lol
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06-28-2019, 05:38 PM	#53
infinitekidM2C Major General 4298 Rep 5,737 Posts Drives: 2019 M2 Competition Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Orange County, CA iTrader: (4) Garage List 2019 M2 COMPETITION [9.75] 2008 135i (my old car) [7.56]	I need to work on my chivalry. I sometimes take off before she's even closed the door. Also never notice when/if she's actually buckled up. Maybe i need to calm down.
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06-28-2019, 05:53 PM	#54
Savageenterprise Captain 982 Rep 640 Posts Drives: 2008 M3 (E93) Join Date: Jul 2018 Location: Out and about iTrader: (0) Garage List 2018 Chevy Tahoe [0.00] 2008 BMW E93 M3 [0.00]	Hold the door for my wife and let her walk first always whether it's into a store or building etc. I'll also open the car door for my wife if shes holding something, or were approaching the car and the passenger door is closest to me... I'll open her door first and then walk around just to be a gentleman. I wouldn't walk past my door around the entire car to open her door, then walk back. It just seems like that is a little much __________________ "Hard times create strong men. Strong men create easy times. Easy times create weak men. Weak men create hard times."
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06-28-2019, 05:54 PM	#55
BM dnobagaV Banned 448 Rep 459 Posts Drives: 2010 BMW 528i Join Date: Apr 2018 Location: Dreamville iTrader: (0)	Depends. Am I driving an e60 M5? Because I've gotta get in and let it warm up for five minutes. If she's fine standing outside the car door for five minutes, then yes, I do open the door for her
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06-28-2019, 08:10 PM	#57
Mingwan Major 1890 Rep 1,340 Posts Drives: X1 Individual custom paint Join Date: Jan 2015 Location: Kansas iTrader: (0)	I do. But it’s because I cringe every time she closes the frameless door by the top of the window.
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06-28-2019, 08:16 PM	#59
Mingwan Major 1890 Rep 1,340 Posts Drives: X1 Individual custom paint Join Date: Jan 2015 Location: Kansas iTrader: (0)	Me? Been busy getting boats and hoes.
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06-29-2019, 03:25 PM	#61
Seeyal Private 108 Rep 55 Posts Drives: 2014 M5 Saphire Black Join Date: Dec 2013 Location: In heaven between New Orleans and Houston iTrader: (0)	If not always, most of the time, and also when no one is watching... Married since 1991 and still doing it... It is how much I respect the mother of our children and my wife... Call me old school, I guess... 58 years young in 2 days...lol __________________ 2017Chevy Silverado LTZ/ 2014 Chevy Silverado LTZ - Retired/ 2014 M5/ 2012 750LI - wife car/2011 B7 Retired/ 2008 535i - now my son's car/ 2008 335i - lease - returned/ 2007 750li - retired/ 2004 545i - retired
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06-30-2019, 01:04 AM	#63
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06-30-2019, 02:13 PM	#64
DF Major 239 Rep 1,255 Posts Drives: F23 Join Date: Sep 2013 Location: Sherman Oaks iTrader: (0)	i dont think i have ever opened a car door for someone who was physically able to do so on their own
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06-30-2019, 02:32 PM	#66
dreamingat30fps Colonel 5964 Rep 2,022 Posts Drives: Miata, Cayenne, Model 3, F350 Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: South Florida & NC iTrader: (1)	Every single time an armless woman gets in my car
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