[Saigon]

Originally Posted by xxForgedxx

She texted me at 1230am:

"Hey I'm still out but I really wanna see you tonight, what are you up to later"

me: depends what time, do you know?

"I dunno, I'll call you?"

me: ok call me

I got no call...


1pm today came around, I texted her "Did you have fun last night?" which kinda sounded like, thanks for fucking blowing me off retarddd. She responded with...

"Um yeah, I got a lil drunk"

me: oh well glad you had fun, get at me if you wanna hang out again before you leave

"Okie doke"

And that's all she wrote. I doubt I will hear from her again and to be frank I don't feel like chasing her ass. So I think it's game over. She leaves for her new job (2 hours away) in a week even though she and I both said we'd still want to swing it.

you basically said, "thanks for hooking up w someone else last night and flaking on me, but if your free some time let me know and ill come back and hang out w you whenever" come on dude just be more dominant!

[xxForgedxx]

Originally Posted by Saigon

you basically said, "thanks for hooking up w someone else last night and flaking on me, but if your free some time let me know and ill come back and hang out w you whenever" come on dude just be more dominant!

Or I'm not going to chase some girl who sucks at putting effort in

[E90ice]

Originally Posted by xxForgedxx

Or I'm not going to chase some girl who sucks at putting effort in

Are you over 20 or under? Seriously. Sounds like you have a lot to learn about women.

I just can't believe that you expect things from someone who slept with you the first time she met you and now you are wondering why shes blowing you off and playing games.

She has you right where she wants you to....playing games and having you wonder and chase her around.

Lesson learned? Probably not.

[xxForgedxx]

Originally Posted by E90ice

Are you over 20 or under? Seriously. Sounds like you have a lot to learn about women.

I just can't believe that you expect things from someone who slept with you the first time she met you and now you are wondering why shes blowing you off and playing games.

She has you right where she wants you to....playing games and having you wonder and chase her around.

Lesson learned? Probably not.

I'm not chasing her am I?

[98spoolinsupra]

I think your putting the wrong type of time and effort into this relationship. You met her on thrusday and fucked her friday night... which puts her in the " you can't turn a hoe into a house wife" category in my book. Take it for what it was worth and find another girl if you're interested in settling.

[xxForgedxx]

Nah I quit, I won't be texting her unless she does me. Otherwise it means I'm chasing.

[slo_guy]

Originally Posted by xxForgedxx

I'm not chasing her am I?

not chasing her per se...but answering her text messages and asking when you can hang out again can be considered "chasing". you should've never answered her responses the next day...or two...or three days after even. the moment you stop being a challenge, especially since you nailed her in two days, the quicker you're out of the picture. the less responsive you are to her two things can possibly happen: 1.) she wonders "what's wrong with me? why won't he call me?" or 2.) "oh well...his loss". Hope for option one and she'll do the calling.

[Saigon]

Originally Posted by 98spoolinsupra

I think your putting the wrong type of time and effort into this relationship. You met her on thrusday and fucked her friday night... which puts her in the " you can't turn a hoe into a house wife" category in my book. Take it for what it was worth and find another girl if you're interested in settling.

Well said, I learned my lesson the hard way after a year and a month LTR. I don't like to share my experiences(online) but I do have a blog, PM me if you're interested

[UdubBadger]

dude this is plain and simple...

she texts you with that bullshit of "oh I'm out with friends" you say "have fun, me and my buddies are thinking of going to bar X" or some shit like that. That says to her ok well dont think im gonna be sitting around waiting for you to call me if youre out with your friends. what happened to you last night was she got the upper hand cuz she knew you were waiting and she had you in the palm of her hand.

id personally say the hell with this one... move on to the next cuz shes always gonna think she owns you.

[jaza45]

I usually keep those as a bootycalls, thats why you cant get attached to them too quick too easy...

[reinaldo335]

What would you tell this girl?

i would tell her:

suck my dxck you bixch!

[MTV]

Originally Posted by xxForgedxx

Nah I quit, I won't be texting her unless she does me. Otherwise it means I'm chasing.

[aznshrek88]

Originally Posted by xxForgedxx

She texted me at 1230am:

"Hey I'm still out but I really wanna see you tonight, what are you up to later"

me: depends what time, do you know?

"I dunno, I'll call you?"

me: ok call me

I got no call...


1pm today came around, I texted her "Did you have fun last night?" which kinda sounded like, thanks for fucking blowing me off retarddd. She responded with...

"Um yeah, I got a lil drunk"

me: oh well glad you had fun, get at me if you wanna hang out again before you leave

"Okie doke"

And that's all she wrote. I doubt I will hear from her again and to be frank I don't feel like chasing her ass. So I think it's game over. She leaves for her new job (2 hours away) in a week even though she and I both said we'd still want to swing it.

Your Response= GAME OVER

If you framed yourself like that you already lost. I mean unless you flip it 100% and txt her back; hey I totally just need a fuck buddy tonight so come hang out because I couldnt tell you all the crazy shit i'd do to you through text... hahah gl

[Turbo>NA]

Man your fucking up soooooo bad

[Turbo>NA]

Give me your cell phone please!!, and I'll talk to her. You'll get you dick sucked the same night

[xxForgedxx]

Originally Posted by Turbo>NA

Give me your cell phone please!!, and I'll talk to her. You'll get you dick sucked the same night

I already got it... 3 times in a day. How am I fucking it up, I'm going with what I'm given to work with.

[radix]

Originally Posted by xxForgedxx

I already got it... 3 times in a day. How am I fucking it up, I'm going with what I'm given to work with.

You're chasing it too much and it sounds like she's the type that doesn't like to be chased. From what it sounds like, the best thing you could do is just let it ride and do your own thing. Phrases like "get back with me", "call me", etc., come off as too "needy". Let her chase you a bit, if she doesn't want to do that then let her go the fling's over. My $0.02.

[UdubBadger]

maybe this is her way of saying "you're bad in the sack" but she doesn't have the heart to tell you straight up. :


j/k man

[Saigon]

Originally Posted by aznshrek88

Your Response= GAME OVER

If you framed yourself like that you already lost. I mean unless you flip it 100% and txt her back; hey I totally just need a fuck buddy tonight so come hang out because I couldnt tell you all the crazy shit i'd do to you through text... hahah gl

that's a good one, she'll be soo down for that. perfect text

[1cleanm6]

just the fact your even thinking about what to do or say is tripping me out..

[haen]

First off, never text message with girls. I have found it to be a generally bad idea. It's a harder to lie to someone over the phone than it is to text message. A girl can't tell you she's just watching a movie at her friend's house when there is loud club music in the background. Also texting is extremely annoying. A 30 second phone conversation takes 10 minutes texting back and forth. If you call a girl and she never answers her phone but continues sending you text messages, never talk to her again. She probably isn't worth your time.

Now with regards to this particular situation. Stop playing games. All of this bullsh!t about who's pursing who is a huge waste of time. If you like this girl, why should you be afraid of making the first move? The actual first move was made a long time ago, so get over it. This is what you need to do. Call her in a day or two, don't text, and see if you can get her to make a date with you. It doesn't have to be a real date, just see if you can get her to agree to spend time with you. If she says something to the effect of "maybe later" and won't give you a firm time to see you, then forget her. If she wants to see you again, then go for it. It's really quite simple, not rocket science.

PS, I can't believe you've never hooked up with a girl, promised to call her the next day and then never spoken to her again. Because I'm pretty sure that's what just happened to you.

[.:bHd:.]

Originally Posted by haen

First off, never text message with girls. I have found it to be a generally bad idea. It's a harder to lie to someone over the phone than it is to text message. A girl can't tell you she's just watching a movie at her friend's house when there is loud club music in the background. Also texting is extremely annoying. A 30 second phone conversation takes 10 minutes texting back and forth. If you call a girl and she never answers her phone but continues sending you text messages, never talk to her again. She probably isn't worth your time.

Now with regards to this particular situation. Stop playing games. All of this bullsh!t about who's pursing who is a huge waste of time. If you like this girl, why should you be afraid of making the first move? The actual first move was made a long time ago, so get over it. This is what you need to do. Call her in a day or two, don't text, and see if you can get her to make a date with you. It doesn't have to be a real date, just see if you can get her to agree to spend time with you. If she says something to the effect of "maybe later" and won't give you a firm time to see you, then forget her. If she wants to see you again, then go for it. It's really quite simple, not rocket science.

PS, I can't believe you've never hooked up with a girl, promised to call her the next day and then never spoken to her again. Because I'm pretty sure that's what just happened to you.

umm welcome to the 21st century. Most girls would rather text than talk