Warning about dating a Chinese girl !!!

gtron · 10-18-2013, 01:40 PM

this is what i read

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Originally Posted by mylydiamy

She was the love of my life

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Originally Posted by mylydiamy

marry me or break up

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Originally Posted by mylydiamy

I had no choice but break up with her

mylydiamy · 10-18-2013, 02:14 PM

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Originally Posted by gtron

this is what i read

Haha! Good one

Maestro · 10-18-2013, 02:24 PM

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Originally Posted by will.c

Is it normal? In Asia - perhaps. In US - no.

Everyone probably has one or two Asian friends who are known to do this, and this type of behavior is probably more prominent in Asian cultures than any other, but I gotta say majority of Asians in US don't do this, so I wouldn't say it's quite "normal."

I would say it depend on what generation they are living in the US. If they are first generation meaning the kids may or may not have been born in the US however the Parents were definitely not born in the US then it is common. However if they are 2nd or greater generation then I agree it is not as common. I have friends in both group and first they all say the same thing kids must take care of the parents if they are in the second group most are Americanize and do not buy into the old world ways.

mylydiamy · 10-18-2013, 02:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Maestro

I would say it depend on what generation they are living in the US. If they are first generation meaning the kids may or may not have been born in the US however the Parents were definitely not born in the US then it is common. However if they are 2nd or greater generation then I agree it is not as common. I have friends in both group and first they all say the same thing kids must take care of the parents if they are in the second group most are Americanize and do not buy into the old world ways.

That's pretty much what everyone says. Thanks

M3Denver · 10-18-2013, 03:15 PM

China fuckin sucks at everything IMHO.

F32 · 10-18-2013, 04:10 PM

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Originally Posted by MrRoboto

A 42 year old man telling relationship stories on an internet forum...sad.

This.

upstatedoc · 10-18-2013, 04:11 PM

still no pics of gf? Meh...

F32 · 10-18-2013, 04:16 PM

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Originally Posted by mylydiamy

Yes it was me, unfortunately

Ah. Makes sense.

As humans, we all have our strenghts and weaknesses. Some of us are great working with our hands, while some of us are horrible. Some are excellent at public speaking, while some of us suck at phycal activities. Maybe you just suck at relationships?

I recommend going out and banging every single hot 21-25 year old you see. Trust me, it's fairly easy to do if you have money. I have a feeling you never really got this sort of behavior "out of your system."

F32 · 10-18-2013, 04:17 PM

Yeah, post pics of said women so we can judge if it was worth all the heartache or not. I'm guessing we'll all fall a little more towards the not...

mylydiamy · 10-18-2013, 04:35 PM

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Originally Posted by F32

Ah. Makes sense.

As humans, we all have our strenghts and weaknesses. Some of us are great working with our hands, while some of us are horrible. Some are excellent at public speaking, while some of us suck at phycal activities. Maybe you just suck at relationships?

I recommend going out and banging every single hot 21-25 year old you see. Trust me, it's fairly easy to do if you have money. I have a feeling you never really got this sort of behavior "out of your system."

Yo might be right with me sucking at relationships

That's what I am doing now. I started with 37 year old doc, then 35 year old lawyer and now banging 31 year old Thai girl. So far as good as it gets

mylydiamy · 10-18-2013, 04:37 PM

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Originally Posted by F32

Yeah, post pics of said women so we can judge if it was worth all the heartache or not. I'm guessing we'll all fall a little more towards the not...

I would but I won't because I still respect her...

mylydiamy · 10-18-2013, 04:38 PM

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Originally Posted by M3Denver

China fuckin sucks at everything IMHO.

No disrespect but I disagree with u

F32 · 10-18-2013, 04:48 PM

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Originally Posted by mylydiamy

That's what I am doing now. I started with 37 year old doc, then 35 year old lawyer and now banging 31 year old Thai girl. So far as good as it gets

Are you white?

White guys who have some sort of facsination with Asians creep me the fuck out.

turbolag · 10-18-2013, 08:31 PM

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Originally Posted by M3Denver

China fuckin sucks at everything IMHO.

No offense but I think you're full of shit.

No matter how corrupt the government is at least it isn't shut down.

kevinbahnz · 10-18-2013, 08:47 PM

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Originally Posted by mylydiamy

Yo might be right with me sucking at relationships

That's what I am doing now. I started with 37 year old doc, then 35 year old lawyer and now banging 31 year old Thai girl. So far as good as it gets

Funny how u listed the occupation for the 37 and 35 yr old but the 31 is just a Thai girl.

pacman.defense · 10-18-2013, 09:26 PM

lol white people just don't understand chinese culture.

P-rex · 10-18-2013, 09:39 PM

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Originally Posted by M3Denver

China fuckin sucks at everything IMHO.

You meaning sucking the USA dry thru interest payments they paid China...

Remember... China owns America... China owns you!!

P-rex · 10-18-2013, 09:43 PM

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Originally Posted by pacman.defense

lol white people just don't understand chinese culture.

In the words and persona of Chris tucker in Rush Hour

"Ain't nobody understand the words comin outta ya mouth"

pacman.defense · 10-18-2013, 09:46 PM

you should marry her. someone needs to save these single mothers.

grimlock · 10-18-2013, 10:24 PM

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Originally Posted by M3Denver

China fuckin sucks at everything IMHO.

which is why I dig the chicks - though can't say I have tried anything else..

does she give good Thai massages? or make you pad thai

will.c · 10-18-2013, 10:26 PM

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Originally Posted by M3Denver

China fuckin sucks at everything IMHO.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/arti...-motorway.html

grimlock · 10-18-2013, 10:52 PM

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Originally Posted by will.c

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/arti...-motorway.html

No disagreement here.. the only thing chinese i will use are the women

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