[Mr.SugarSkulls]

Originally Posted by bimmette

You can't get it open. The mods closed it, probably due to some idiots complaining. Write in the ask a guy thread.

This seriously made me mad. It's literally looking at discrimination in the face for a fellow forum member, and while the other lame asses were trying to refute OPs views on a thread based on trying to shed some light, OP wouldn't bite and bicker back.

If they don't like something, simply don't look at the thread. Is that so hard to do?

[squidlyboy]

shit... gone for 2 days and another 300 posts - do any of you have lives outside of bimmerpost?? what'd I miss...?

the one question I thought was interesting was the mind games one and the FWB one. It reminded me of something I read somewhere about some girl who didn't mind doing some dude she met on the first night, and basically being his booty call. But then she met some guy that she REALLY liked and decided she would withhold sex from him for at least 2 months... because she REALLY liked him. WTF... that's so f'ed up.

[Lups]

Originally Posted by Mr.SugarSkulls

This seriously made me mad. It's literally looking at discrimination in the face for a fellow forum member, and while the other lame asses were trying to refute OPs views on a thread based on trying to shed some light, OP wouldn't bite and bicker back.

If they don't like something, simply don't look at the thread. Is that so hard to do?

I find it sad.

The crew in charge are willing to let a noisy female minority run around here, but a gay guy is too much. People ask why parades are still needed, but clearly they are.

We had a gay M4 owner asking if there were fellow ones in the F8x section and it got shut down. I got a warning for starting one for asking for lesbian owners.

It is truly sad that this happened and I apologize in behalf of the car forum approved minority.

[Mr.SugarSkulls]

Originally Posted by Lups

I find it sad.

The crew in charge are willing to let a noisy female minority run around here, but a gay guy is too much. People ask why parades are still needed, but clearly they are.

We had a gay M4 owner asking if there were fellow ones in the F8x section and it got shut down. I got a warning for starting one for asking for lesbian owners.

It is truly sad that this happened and I apologize in behalf of the car forum approved minority.

I've already called them out in their bigot ways.

They're clearly not going to do anything about it, so fuck them.

[Needbmwpartzz]

Originally Posted by Lups

I find it sad.

The crew in charge are willing to let a noisy female minority run around here, but a gay guy is too much. People ask why parades are still needed, but clearly they are.

We had a gay M4 owner asking if there were fellow ones in the F8x section and it got shut down. I got a warning for starting one for asking for lesbian owners.

It is truly sad that this happened and I apologize in behalf of the car forum approved minority.

Unfortunately it does not align with the bmw lifestyle and branding,so I will just assume this is discrimination by way of publication ban.
Big brother has spoken folks and lets get back to our regular programming

[RickFLM4]

Originally Posted by Mr.SugarSkulls

If they don't like something, simply don't look at the thread. Is that so hard to do?

Apparently it is for you.

[Lups]

Originally Posted by Mr.SugarSkulls

I've already called them out in their bigot ways.

They're clearly not going to do anything about it, so fuck them.

So have I man, so have I.

Originally Posted by Needbmwpartzz

Unfortunately it does not align with the bmw lifestyle and branding,so I will just assume this is discrimination by way of publication ban.
Big brother has spoken folks and lets get back to our regular programming

Yeah well, funny how the grandmas in my knitting forum are more tolerant than the young folks of bimmerpost.

[Needbmwpartzz]

Originally Posted by Lups

So have I man, so have I.

Yeah well, funny how the grandmas in my knitting forum are more tolerant than the young folks of bimmerpost.

That's because woman tend to be more open to discussion and well you know how the old hairs are....in case I'm wrong(stubborn as hell)

[Lups]

Originally Posted by Needbmwpartzz

That's because woman tend to be more open to discussion and well you know how the old hairs are....in case I'm wrong(stubborn as hell)

Hahaha, Ss kinda nailed it there though.

[Needbmwpartzz]

Originally Posted by Lups

Hahaha, Ss kinda nailed it there though.

Agreed!

[bimmette]

Gay thread has disappeared and Asian thread merged to guy thread

[NEFARIOUS]

I'm surprised nobody has asked this (well, at least when I ran a search... My ADD kicked in and I'm too fixated on listening to GNR than to manually look through 55 pages)...

But how we convince you to bring another female into the bedroom for a threesome?

[Biorin]

Originally Posted by NEFARIOUS

I'm surprised nobody has asked this (well, at least when I ran a search... My ADD kicked in and I'm too fixated on listening to GNR than to manually look through 55 pages)...

But how we convince you to bring another female into the bedroom for a threesome?

She has to really trust you and feel comfortable about where your relationship stands and your feelings for each other, as well as why you want the threesome. I would also leave the suggesting of who the third party should be up to her. Reassure her as to how you feel about her, and tell her that you think it would be a fun experience for both of you together.

At least, in general.

[Lups]

Originally Posted by bimmette

Gay thread has disappeared and Asian thread merged to guy thread

And yet this is here.

[bimmette]

Originally Posted by Lups

And yet this is here.

Ok I was wrong. Gay and Asian threads are both merged into guy thread.

[Lups]

Originally Posted by NEFARIOUS

I'm surprised nobody has asked this (well, at least when I ran a search... My ADD kicked in and I'm too fixated on listening to GNR than to manually look through 55 pages)...

But how we convince you to bring another female into the bedroom for a threesome?

I've never seen a relationship survive that, but I've seen attempts. Two ended up for the guy behind dumped and the girls wanting to explore more, one was the guy dumping the wife for the new chick.

Personally I'd take it as huge ass fuck you. I'd be out the door in seconds, and not because I'd find the idea of a female lover repulsive but relationships are about love and trust. If I'm not enough, then we don't have either.

Originally Posted by Biorin

She has to really trust you and feel comfortable about where your relationship stands and your feelings for each other, as well as why you want the threesome. I would also leave the suggesting of who the third party should be up to her. Reassure her as to how you feel about her, and tell her that you think it would be a fun experience for both of you together.

At least, in general.

In general you're full of shit B you know as well as I do that allowing that would mean he just wants an other ass. If a threesome is that he's after, why not suggest a guy coming in to play?

[MrPrena]

Originally Posted by NEFARIOUS

I'm surprised nobody has asked this (well, at least when I ran a search... My ADD kicked in and I'm too fixated on listening to GNR than to manually look through 55 pages)...

But how we convince you to bring another female into the bedroom for a threesome?

I call that multi-tasking.
I don't multi-task, but I use to diversify heavily.

Multi-tasking can be awesome, but there is a side effect that both might not like your ass for incomplete assignment, and you might have to delete their #s.


Oh wait... This is ask a girl anything thread. oops. LOL

[Biorin]

Originally Posted by Lups

In general you're full of shit B you know as well as I do that allowing that would mean he just wants an other ass. If a threesome is that he's after, why not suggest a guy coming in to play?

I think I find it normal that he wants other women, at least sexually. We are human, and designed to want to reproduce and for the men to want to spread their genes as much as possible. I would think he was gay if he didn't want to bang other women. So long as he's not going to take it any further with her than sex, well, I'm usually going to be okay with it.

[ASBSECU E93]

Originally Posted by Biorin

I think I find it normal that he wants other women, at least sexually. We are human, and designed to want to reproduce and for the men to want to spread their genes as much as possible. I would think he was gay if he didn't want to bang other women. So long as he's not going to take it any further with her than sex, well, I'm usually going to be okay with it.

WTF - So, you'd let your man have his way with another female....in front of you, and in your bed..?

[Biorin]

Originally Posted by ASBSECU E93

WTF - So, you'd let your man have his way with another female....in front of you, and in your bed..?

I was referring to threesomes with that example, but, I have discussed that and MAYBE. I think it would be very challenging to find a person/situation I was comfortable with that, but I am open. Some scenarios are obviously harder to work out than others, but I try to consider most everything, aside from things that horrify me. Sex is sex.

Edit: I know, T, I'm totally oversharing
Second edit: Oh... you mean during a threesome and not just me watching? In that case, yes, though I imagine everyone can be involved at once.

[Lups]

Originally Posted by MrPrena

I call that multi-tasking.
I don't multi-task, but I use to diversify heavily.

Multi-tasking can be awesome, but there is a side effect that both might not like your ass for incomplete assignment, and you might have to delete their #s.


Oh wait... This is ask a girl anything thread. oops. LOL

Dude, they count me as a female so they aren't picky.

Originally Posted by Biorin

I think I find it normal that he wants other women, at least sexually. We are human, and designed to want to reproduce and for the men to want to spread their genes as much as possible. I would think he was gay if he didn't want to bang other women. So long as he's not going to take it any further with her than sex, well, I'm usually going to be okay with it.

All that I do get but I truly don't share. If he still has fantasies to play out, fine. Then it would be a situation where I'd need him to go and do them, but I couldn't be a part of it.

When you think about it, who get's the attention? The guy the straight women are after or the female the straight men are after? So if attention is what we crave, why not get it within the relationship instead of outside of one?

[ASBSECU E93]

Originally Posted by Biorin

I was referring to threesomes with that example, but, I have discussed that and MAYBE. I think it would be very challenging to find a person/situation I was comfortable with that, but I am open. Some scenarios are obviously harder to work out than others, but I try to consider most everything, aside from things that horrify me. Sex is sex.

Edit: I know, T, I'm totally oversharing
Second edit: Oh... you mean during a threesome and not just me watching? In that case, yes, though I imagine everyone can be involved at once.

I am not trying to judge - and to each their own...but I do not think that would end well.

Edit: All men crave sexual dominance. this can be in the form of multiple partners at different times, or during one encounter...This threesome ain't about you...IMHO.