[Verbiage]

Originally Posted by NBRider88

No idea. I put it up in 05'....never even thought about changing it. It's about that time though

Damnn and here I thought u waz lovin the pooh and come to find out youz been hatin

NAHH BRUH U BETTA LEEV UP DAT POOH CUH I LYKE POOH CUH.

[Kroy]

Originally Posted by NBRider88

No idea. I put it up in 05'....never even thought about changing it. It's about that time though

Damnn and here I thought u waz lovin the pooh and come to find out youz been hatin

for reals brah? it's like maddog's popcorn kernel and collin's lime cat. you is poo! if i had that for 5 years, i'd NEVER change it.

[Verbiage]

Originally Posted by Kroy

for reals brah? it's like maddog's popcorn kernel and collin's lime cat. you is poo! if i had that for 5 years, i'd NEVER change it.

+10000000 and nobody has it. Its how I identify him. Not like jaykay who changes his every day.


Like I will be leaving mine for as long as I'm here.

[Kroy]

Originally Posted by Bavarian III

+10000000 and nobody has it. Its how I identify him. Not like jaykay who changes his every day.


Like I will be leaving mine for as long as I'm here.

speaking of jk, you should swap avatars with him.

[coh4777]

OP, you are getting a TON of good advice on this thread. I know you probably think people are dumping on you by being dicks, but they're doing you a service by giving it to you straight with minimal bs. Forget this chick and move on. You are a soon to be 21 year old rocking a badass M3 in a city chocked full of hot chicks. There is so much win potential in your life it's crazy!

[NBRider88]

Originally Posted by Bavarian III

NAHH BRUH U BETTA LEEV UP DAT POOH CUH I LYKE POOH CUH.

Originally Posted by Kroy

for reals brah? it's like maddog's popcorn kernel and collin's lime cat. you is poo! if i had that for 5 years, i'd NEVER change it.

haha yeah I might have to keep it. 5 years and counting. damn. all would be a waste if I changed it now!

When people post, it's the first thing I see so I know who's posting without looking at there name...

[Verbiage]

Originally Posted by Kroy

speaking of jk, you should swap avatars with him.

Ew nevar!

Originally Posted by NBRider88

haha yeah I might have to keep it. 5 years and counting. damn. all would be a waste if I changed it now!

When people post, it's the first thing I see so I know who's posting without looking at there name...

Basically lol. Like no one else on here even knows WTF Kidrobot is. I'm just getting money. Like a boss. All the time.

[Kroy]

Originally Posted by coh4777

OP, you are getting a TON of good advice on this thread. I know you probably think people are dumping on you by being dicks, but they're doing you a service by giving it to you straight with minimal bs. Forget this chick and move on. You are a soon to be 21 year old rocking a badass M3 in a city chocked full of hot chicks. There is so much win potential in your life it's crazy!

+18560309


Think of it this way. People here aren't your real life friends; we don't have any attachment/investment with you so there's no need to sugar coat what we say. No one is trying to spare your feelings right now; you ask for advice, you get the truth.

[Kroy]

Originally Posted by Bavarian III

Ew nevar!



Basically lol. Like no one else on here even knows WTF Kidrobot is. I'm just getting money. Like a boss. All the time.

Your right hand looks a bit empty. Should be a 40 in your hand. You can decide whether i mean ounces or caliber.

[Verbiage]

Ahhh THAT avatar.. I thought you meant the one he has now. His WAS very clever. I may have to make my own rendition when I get home.

[Comet]

Originally Posted by Kroy

+18560309


Think of it this way. People here aren't your real life friends; we don't have any attachment/investment with you so there's no need to sugar coat what we say. No one is trying to spare your feelings right now; you ask for advice, you get the truth.

right on
men don't sugar coat shit
that's what females do!

[nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn]

Originally Posted by .:bHd:.

gotta say i disagree. You can break up and still be friends (with benefits). I still fuck my ex from time to time. Just don't be a bitch and treat her to dinner and shit while she goes home and bangs another dude

Edit: forgot an important fact. Don't talk to her until you're completely over her. No feelings at all. Then smash

considering how emotional he is in this thread, I highly doubt he will be able to be around her ever.

[coh4777]

Originally Posted by ferrari355fi

considering how emotional he is in this thread, I highly doubt he will be able to be around her ever.

+1

[M3Bahn]

Originally Posted by ferrari355fi

considering how emotional he is in this thread, I highly doubt he will be able to be around her ever.

He's probably already camped out on her doorstep with a dozen roses.

[JayKay335i]

I use spaces in my tags!

[grieverr]

OP, it happens to us all at that age. Our girls "become adults" and want to see what else is out there. It may not have anything to do with you. But she's probably curious about other types of men and a different type of life. Its that same transformation from kid to teenager, now happening as an adult.

Unfortunately, I agree that:
1. she had probably already checked out of the relationship by the time she told you.
2. she's seeing this guy BECAUSE he's the opposite of you (again, looking to experience different things)
3. "let's be friends" is her stringing you along to feed her ego

No matter how nice she is, I do not feel she is exempt from the 3 things I mentioned. It's just part of growing up.

[MDyDinanM]

move on

don't invite her to your b-day

i'd cut if off cold turkey, don't respond to her texts, don't even communicate with her at all. That will be tough initially, but after a while, you won't even care. Thats the best way (IMHO) to forget about someone. Don't let her jedi mind trick you with the whole "friends thing". That will make you more miserable. Get involved with something such as focus on school, job, a hobby, or go to MFest, etc. Find something to get your mind off the subject.


Just move on with you life, where ever it leads you.

[Elie335i]

seriously, the persian54 are the funniest tag ever, because whenever he read them he's like " WTF "

[Quick6EF]

late to the party

[Crisp]

Originally Posted by mdyaman

move on

don't invite her to your b-day

i'd cut if off cold turkey, don't respond to her texts, don't even communicate with her at all. That will be tough initially, but after a while, you won't even care. Thats the best way (IMHO) to forget about someone. Don't let her jedi mind trick you with the whole "friends thing". That will make you more miserable. Get involved with something such as focus on school, job, a hobby, or go to MFest, etc. Find something to get your mind off the subject.


Just move on with you life, where ever it leads you.

I completely agree with this.

I got into a 3 year relationship when I was 17-18.
The girl cheated on me after 3 years...knew it was going to happen because there were a lot of arguments towards the end.

I cried like a little bitch the night I found out, then the next day I went out and started keeping my mind active. (worked in the car, took out the quad, went out with friends at night).

Best thing to do is keep your mind active at all times.
You need to do this so you can think clearly. Otherwise you will think about her missing you or getting back with her which is the complete opposite of clear thinking.
You NEVER get 'back into' a relationship. It does not work.

Anyway for a year or so I got a lot of hobbies, and after the first few months after the break-up, I went out with A LOT of girls. Never committed to any of them because they were just for fun, I wasn't looking for a headache.
These were all things to keep my mind active and all the juices flowing.

After I had my fun and I was ready to settle down again, I did just that.
After a year (maybe more) of enjoying freedom, I settled down with someone and been with her for 2 years now.



The best advice anyone will ever give you is about being active.
Join a gym, get a dog, make a lot of friends, focus more on school/work.

The worst advice will be one that involves the past such as: talk to her, hang out with her, etc.

What's done is done. Don't beat a dead horse. Move forward in life...she's your past now.


Although this may seem like a big deal now and you justify your depression, think about how you would handle a divorce when you're 30. How about a divorce when you're 40 and you have kids involved?

Suddenly, a break-up at 20 seems like a child's game that has no weight. A

[markham335i]

this happened to me man. went out with a girl for almost 3 years but knew her for longer. she wanted other guys for sure and theres nothing i could do about it so we broke up. i was depressed like u, did some stupid shit. witout giving away to much info it took about 1.5 years to get over her and now i look back and laugh about it... didnt need a theropist but im sure it would have helped..

it will take a longgggggggggg time to forget about her but i promise time will heal all. ull look back at this one day when u have a girl x10000 times hotter and better then this one and u'll lol... dont sweat it

[cmark8]

Originally Posted by compm3e92m3

yeah I can see that. It does make you tilt your head. but shes got issues and shouldnt be dating like me rite now. Let it fail

Go to MFest, have a good time. You're not 21 yet, but you can still track your car. I highly suggest you to get your mind focused on something else. Stack up your dough and distract yourself with something else.
Do you go to UCSD? and you're also hitting MFest? Let me know, I've probably seen your car around.